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Abigail’s Arms began as a telephone hotline to help victims of domestic and sexual violence in Cooke County. Based on great need in our area their organization has grown and added a multidimensional approach to provide more services for their clients. Being victimized by a “loved one” or family member makes this an especially emotional situation. It is difficult to imagine being abused by someone you love but this is a reality for many women and children. This is where Abigail’s Arms steps in to help guide the victim through the process of reporting the crime, visiting healthcare professionals, and other service providers such as support groups.

Abigail’s Arms is currently undertaking a capital raise in order to build a state of the art private shelter to house up to 44 women and children.  Considering that current victims are sometimes placed in motels as temporary shelter it is very important that the new facility be completed as soon as possible. By making a donation you can help facilitate the shelter’s timely completion. As family violence continues to be a problem it is wonderful to see our community working together in order to provide a safe haven for victims to get back their resolve and move forward in life.  Click here to donate now.

If you or someone you know is a victim of family violence please call their 24 hotline.

  • 940-665-2873
  • Toll Free 1-877-846-4751

Below is an article taken from the United States Department of Justice website that defines domestic violence and how society and the victims are affected.

We define domestic violence as a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.  Physical Abuse: Hitting, slapping, shoving, grabbing, pinching, biting, hair pulling, etc are types of physical abuse. This type of abuse also includes denying a partner medical care or forcing alcohol and/or drug use upon him or her.

Sexual Abuse: Coercing or attempting to coerce any sexual contact or behavior without consent. Sexual abuse includes, but is certainly not limited to, marital rape, attacks on sexual parts of the body, forcing sex after physical violence has occurred, or treating one in a sexually demeaning manner.

Emotional Abuse: Undermining an individual’s sense of self-worth and/or self-esteem is abusive. This may include, but is not limited to constant criticism, diminishing one’s abilities, name-calling, or damaging one’s relationship with his or her children.

Economic Abuse: Is defined as making or attempting to make an individual financially dependent by maintaining total control over financial resources, withholding one’s access to money, or forbidding one’s attendance at school or employment.

Psychological Abuse: Elements of psychological abuse include – but are not limited to – causing fear by intimidation; threatening physical harm to self, partner, children, or partner’s family or friends; destruction of pets and property; and forcing isolation from family, friends, or school and/or work.

Domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of race, age, sexual orientation, religion, or gender. Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels. Domestic violence occurs in both opposite-sex and same-sex relationships and can happen to intimate partners who are married, living together, or dating.

Domestic violence not only affects those who are abused, but also has a substantial effect on family members, friends, co-workers, other witnesses, and the community at large. Children, who grow up witnessing domestic violence, are among those seriously affected by this crime. Frequent exposure to violence in the home not only predisposes children to numerous social and physical problems, but also teaches them that violence is a normal way of life – therefore, increasing their risk of becoming society’s next generation of victims and abusers.

Sources: National Domestic Violence Hotline, National Center for Victims of Crime, and WomensLaw.org.